Blame it on the Internet. I do.
Daily, almost hourly, I’m tempted to start planning a trip because of an email, Facebook post or travel article. And if it’s not me lusting after a new boomer adventure, Alan’s calling from his office to show me his next want-to-travel idea.
How we decide where to go
With so many travel options, it’s easy to become stuck deciding where to go. And Alan and I aren’t the only ones. Frequently, readers send us emails like this:
“Hi Donna, Best wishes to both of you on the 9th anniversary of your blog! When I read about your ‘fear’ of heights, (like me) I felt a bit better. But it hasn’t stopped you from certain destinations (unlike me). You have Road Lag; I have Decision Lag.
We’re looking at next year. Do we start with WHEN or WHERE to go? Land or sea? Travel alone or with a group? Have you ever written about pre-planning questions to answer? Regards, Judy, Toronto, Ontario.”
And, so Judy, and the rest of My Itchy Travel Feet readers who are having trouble making up their minds about that next trip, these boomer travel tips for how to decide where to go are for you.
Keep a list of where to go
Call them bucket lists, want-to-do lists or travel goals. It really doesn’t matter. But knowing where to go is a big step forward in planning your next boomer travel adventure. Keeping track of your list—or goals—is easy with our favorite bucket list travel apps.
Alan and I each keep lists of places we’d like to experience. Alan’s is a written one ordered by priority. Mine is all in my brain (maybe I should write it down). Our lists change depending on current interests or the latest destination news that inspires us.
Periodically, we sit down together over a glass of wine to review our separate lists. I explain why certain destinations are calling my name and then it’s Alan’s turn. From there, we choose two or three big trips that appeal the most to both of us to include in the next year’s adventures.
Know when to go
Current events, time of year, budget, health, family matters—many factors decide if the trip that’s at the top of our list becomes a reality. Alan and I are not fans of crowded destinations, which means that we rarely take big trips during the summer.
If a destination is extremely popular, we’ll put off visiting for a year or so until the popularity calms down. And traveling during the off-season is our favorite way to avoid crowds.
Our weekend stay in Iceland is a good example. After the Arctic cruise on Silver Explorer, we booked a land extension to briefly explore this extremely popular country. To be honest, Iceland is currently too popular, especially in August.
While we would love to return for an in-depth visit, it won’t be during prime tourist season. Stunning waterfalls quickly lose their appeal when accompanied by huge crowds. But I’m thinking an Iceland winter trip would offer scenic, unique travel opportunities, so I’ve added it to my bucket list.
What’s going on in the world? When is the best weather for a destination? Are cruises or tour companies offering new routes and experiences? These are key questions to ask when deciding where to travel on your boomer trip.
Inspiration comes in many forms. Perhaps your enthusiasm for a destination will be sparked by a magazine, book, movie or television show.
And then there’s the Internet, which is filled with more travel ideas than you could accomplish in ten lifetimes. Hopefully the articles and photos at My Itchy Travel Feet are part of the mix that inspires your boomer travel adventures.
Once you’ve been inspired, it’s time for online research; and these days it’s more a matter of too much information rather than too little. I like researching destinations by taking a look at the official visitor’s website where I usually find an overview that also includes suggestions for activities, accommodations and dining.
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When it’s time to get down to specifics for activities or accommodations, I read the reviews at Trip Advisor, usually throwing out the worst and best reviews. In my experience, the truth is always in the middle.
Blogs about first-hand travel experiences are another way to learn more about a place. Of course you’ll need to understand the blogger’s travel philosophy, making sure that it’s the type of travel that you want to do.
If it’s a cruise that you’re researching, the discussion boards at Cruise Critic are excellent for asking questions about ships, ports and cruising in general. And you’ll also find listings of the latest cruise specials.
Balance preferences with travel styles
We both prefer small ship cruise itineraries that include lots of sea days. A port every day is not the cruise for us. And when it comes to international travel, bonus points if we depart or return on an ocean cruise. Avoiding long international flights is always at the top of our list.
What about group tours? If they’re small and offer unique experiences with excellent lodging, we’ll take a chance on them. There are some places in the world that are much easier to experience on a small group tour than figuring out on our own.
We also look for itineraries that include a couple of nights at each destination. If the tour is a different city each night, it’s not for us.
If the top three travel ideas on our want-to-do-list require major money, they won’t be happening in the same year. And that’s why we also keep a list of short, more affordable travel ideas, like road trips, to round out the travel year.
There are plenty of ways to save or economize on a trip but these are the strategies that we personally use as luxury travelers:
- Contribute to a travel fund on a monthly basis.
- Choose a cash-back credit card and dedicate the payout to the travel fund.
- Sign up for newsletters from favorite travel providers to keep informed of any specials. Did you know we feature travel specials in our weekly email broadcast?
- Join customer loyalty programs at airlines, hotels, cruise lines and other travel companies to receive money-saving offers and upgrades.
- Look for 2 for 1 cruise specials, especially on repositioning cruises. (These are getting harder to find.)
- Follow companies and destinations on Facebook and Twitter. Did you know that many of them offer deals specifically for their social media audiences?
- Choose a similar, but less expensive, destination.
- Travel in the shoulder season or even off-season.
- Book a vacation rental rather than a resort hotel
You may have noticed that I didn’t include airline frequent flyer programs in the list. In our opinion, airlines make it too hard to redeem miles.
While Alan and I do belong to frequent flyer programs, we don’t depend on redeeming miles for international trips. But if that’s your strategy, be sure to factor in the amount of time you are spending on trying to redeem miles because your time is worth something, too.
If you aren’t a luxury traveler, other options that will save money include house sitting, swapping homes or traveling by RV. Choosing a more budget-friendly tour company that offers fewer amenities and a larger group size is another idea.
Book a 4 or 3-star hotel instead a top-of-the-line property. And if luxury cruising on Silversea, Seabourn, Crystal or Regent doesn’t quite fit your pocketbook, check out boutique cruise lines like Oceania, Azamara or Viking. They offer a quality, small ship experience with interesting itineraries.
Set realistic expectations when deciding where to travel
For Alan and me, staying in touch with our priorities and abilities saves us from a disappointing trip. I’m afraid of heights, which can be a big problem on some—but not all—hiking trips.
No matter how much I’d like to see Mt. Everest base camp, I’m not going to make it there. Heck, I’m not even sure that hiking the Highline Trail in Glacier National Park is doable for me.
And we’re keenly aware that time is moving swiftly. Life changes in a heartbeat, which is one reason that active trips are a top priority for us right now.
However, after living through a couple of years crammed with too many trips, Alan and I are balancing our love for travel with the enjoyment of home by spacing out trips. We want to venture off into the world, then return to Montana to process the experience plus appreciate the travel fun we can have right here at home.
Under normal travel circumstances (2020, 2021 and perhaps 2022 have been anything but normal), our goal is to take one long cruise a year. We also include at least one long road trip (the Alaska Highway was wonderful) in the schedule.
And, lest you think that travel companies and destinations are paying for our trips, 99% of our travel is self-funded. And we prefer it that way.
Judy, I hope this answers your question. And, My Itchy Travel Feet readers, what about you? How do you decide when and where to go?